You’re not where you want to be in life because you don’t have clarity.
All success starts with getting clarity on the outcome that you want which requires an understanding of how to set goals for your life. You’re not where you want to be in life because you don’t know how to execute the process to get there.
If you’ve not taken the time to get clarity and set goals then you most likely don’t believe that your dreams are possible. Clarity creates self-belief and crushes self-doubt.
So you have to get clear on what you want. Do this by asking yourself what an ideal day looks like. Not sitting on the beach sipping a cold beverage but a typical day with work and kids and real life issues.
Then you have to learn how to properly set and follow through on your goals.
Then you have to take just the first step. Execute on Day 1.
Finally you have to continually find ways to remind yourself and convince yourself that you can do it. That lesser people have achieved more. That people with fewer resources, less money, a less privileged background have achieved it and more.